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Shame: The Hidden Emotion That Shapes More of Your Life Than You Realise
Shame is something almost everyone carries — and almost no one talks about.
Not the mild embarrassment of saying the wrong thing, but the deeper kind. The kind that says there's something wrong with me. The kind that quietly shapes how you move through the world.
If any of that feels familiar, this post is for you.

Kathryn Spence
May 1112 min read


Why do I feel different from other people? We Are Born to Belong So Relationships Shape Our Mental Health and Identity
Many of us carry a quiet sense of not quite fitting in — but that feeling is rarely a sign that something is wrong with us. This blog explores the deep human need to belong, and what happens when the relationships that were supposed to help us feel safe made that harder instead.

Kathryn Spence
May 916 min read


Ready for Therapy?
This blog helps you prepare for entering therapy, what you can do to support yourself & ways to make the most out of the therapy experience.

Kathryn Spence
Aug 16, 20248 min read


Unpacking the Creative-Daydreamer Personality Adaptation: What You Need to Know
Uncover the world of the Schizoid Creative-Daydreamer Personality. Discover how early development & parenting impact this unique adaptation.

Kathryn Spence
Mar 22, 202411 min read


OCD - What's it all about? A one-stop summary.
A blog to describe the facets of OCD, how it develops & how it is maintained as well as how we can treat and overcome OCD in therapy.

Kathryn Spence
Dec 7, 202213 min read


Understand yourself more through Transactional Analysis Therapy
Transactional Analysis therapy, self awareness, parenting, Ego States, self reflection, communication, relationships, psychology.

Kathryn Spence
Oct 7, 20227 min read
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