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Shame: The Hidden Emotion That Shapes More of Your Life Than You Realise
Shame is something almost everyone carries — and almost no one talks about.
Not the mild embarrassment of saying the wrong thing, but the deeper kind. The kind that says there's something wrong with me. The kind that quietly shapes how you move through the world.
If any of that feels familiar, this post is for you.

Kathryn Spence
May 1112 min read


Why do I feel different from other people? We Are Born to Belong So Relationships Shape Our Mental Health and Identity
Many of us carry a quiet sense of not quite fitting in — but that feeling is rarely a sign that something is wrong with us. This blog explores the deep human need to belong, and what happens when the relationships that were supposed to help us feel safe made that harder instead.

Kathryn Spence
May 916 min read


Why Do I Feel So Stuck? A Guide to Psychological “Impasses”
This blog describes why we feel so psychologically stuck in a familiar pattern and can't move out of it, as well as how to resolve impasses.

Kathryn Spence
Apr 2514 min read


Ready for Therapy?
This blog helps you prepare for entering therapy, what you can do to support yourself & ways to make the most out of the therapy experience.

Kathryn Spence
Aug 16, 20248 min read


Unpacking the Creative-Daydreamer Personality Adaptation: What You Need to Know
Uncover the world of the Schizoid Creative-Daydreamer Personality. Discover how early development & parenting impact this unique adaptation.

Kathryn Spence
Mar 22, 202411 min read


The Moral Defence - Why Children Blame Themselves
Children will blame themselves for the things that go on around them in their early years, the moral defence is why.

Kathryn Spence
Nov 15, 20226 min read
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